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Hello, I'm after a bit of advise for " a friend"
My friends step son has recently split up with his wife, and has recently started talking to someone on a dodgy website "Loveaholics "
Now this friends son has aspergers and believes the girl to be real, and in his words
"She has really helped him to come to terms with my break up."
He really believes this girl is going to meet him and start a beautiful relationship.

Now here comes the dilemma
Does my friends step dad tell him it's all bollocks ( which it obviously is) or let him find out by his own mistakes and break his heart, he is 27 so in no way a child, but has aspergers so finds it hard to rationalise things,

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sorry to here that you have split from your wife.

could you please tell me the full web address of loveaholics so i can 'check' it out myself

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My friends step son has split with his wife! (It's my stepson!)
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Are you a blert?
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The Ghost of Alex Higgins wrote:Are you a blert?
If I knew what a BLERT is
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Are you a BERT
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The Ghost of Alex Higgins wrote:Are you a BERT
I don't think so
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Danabnormal wrote:
The Ghost of Alex Higgins wrote:Are you a BERT
I don't think so
Consider yourself lucky bro.

As for your question, my advice would be to tell him, rip the plaster straight off.
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Thanks, but I fear he is in too deep, my only worry is that he is going to send her money after some scam story! I've read some reviews about the mentioned website and it looks well dodgy!
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Tell him to send a cheque for £10,000 to me and I'll sort it out for him

I run a charity -Cognitive Aspergers Self Help..C.A.S.H for short.Just make it out to that.
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Sid Pervcat wrote:Tell him to send a cheque for £10,000 to me and I'll sort it out for him

I run a charity -Cognitive Aspergers Self Help..C.A.S.H for short.Just make it out to that.
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Danabnormal wrote: Does my friends step dad tell him it's all bollocks ( which it obviously is) or let him find out by his own mistakes and break his heart, he is 27 so in no way a child, but has aspergers so finds it hard to rationalise things,

Thanks in advance
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Danabnormal wrote:Thanks, but I fear he is in too deep, my only worry is that he is going to send her money after some scam story! I've read some reviews about the mentioned website and it looks well dodgy!
I think the best bet would be to sit him down and show him these bad reviews on the site.

I'm not particularly clued up on Aspergers but clearly his confidence has been destroyed and it looks like he's opting for the protection of the online world rather than the harshness of the real one.

I reckon he'd definitely benefit from some time in the company of real people. Maybe a weekend away with the lads doing "man stuff"?

All the best to all involved.
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carcinogen wrote:
Danabnormal wrote: Does my friends step dad tell him it's all bollocks ( which it obviously is) or let him find out by his own mistakes and break his heart, he is 27 so in no way a child, but has aspergers so finds it hard to rationalise things,

Thanks in advance
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Sadact7 wrote:
Danabnormal wrote:Thanks, but I fear he is in too deep, my only worry is that he is going to send her money after some scam story! I've read some reviews about the mentioned website and it looks well dodgy!
I think the best bet would be to sit him down and show him these bad reviews on the site.

I'm not particularly clued up on Aspergers but clearly his confidence has been destroyed and it looks like he's opting for the protection of the online world rather than the harshness of the real one.

I reckon he'd definitely benefit from some time in the company of real people. Maybe a weekend away with the lads doing "man stuff"?

All the best to all involved.
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Put him in touch with someone at MGTOW.

They always seem to talk a lot of sense.
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My missus is a teacher and she's convinced I'm a high functioning autistic.

I have to point out to her that I'm not that high functioning :(
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Sadact7 wrote:My missus is a teacher and she's convinced I'm a high functioning autistic.

I have to point out to her that I'm not that high functioning :(
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Sid Pervcat wrote:
Sadact7 wrote:My missus is a teacher and she's convinced I'm a high functioning autistic.

I have to point out to her that I'm not that high functioning :(
Fuck off Rainman :lol:
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Sid Pervcat wrote:
Sadact7 wrote:My missus is a teacher and she's convinced I'm a high functioning autistic.

I have to point out to her that I'm not that high functioning :(
Fuck off Rainman :lol:
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Sadact7 wrote:My missus is a teacher and she's convinced I'm a high functioning autistic.

I have to point out to her that I'm not that high functioning :(

That explains an awful lot.
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AlcoholBrazil wrote:
Sadact7 wrote:My missus is a teacher and she's convinced I'm a high functioning autistic.

I have to point out to her that I'm not that high functioning :(

That explains an awful lot.

How's that Alk?

Care to explain? Or have you just popped in for a little light goading?
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Alco doesn't even have Autism as an excuse for his retarded posts.

Poor Alco :-(
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