Hello, I'm after a bit of advise for " a friend"
My friends step son has recently split up with his wife, and has recently started talking to someone on a dodgy website "Loveaholics "
Now this friends son has aspergers and believes the girl to be real, and in his words
"She has really helped him to come to terms with my break up."
He really believes this girl is going to meet him and start a beautiful relationship.
Now here comes the dilemma
Does my friends step dad tell him it's all bollocks ( which it obviously is) or let him find out by his own mistakes and break his heart, he is 27 so in no way a child, but has aspergers so finds it hard to rationalise things,
Thanks in advance
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sorry to here that you have split from your wife.
could you please tell me the full web address of loveaholics so i can 'check' it out myself
could you please tell me the full web address of loveaholics so i can 'check' it out myself
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My friends step son has split with his wife! (It's my stepson!)
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Consider yourself lucky bro.Danabnormal wrote:I don't think soThe Ghost of Alex Higgins wrote:Are you a BERT
As for your question, my advice would be to tell him, rip the plaster straight off.
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Thanks, but I fear he is in too deep, my only worry is that he is going to send her money after some scam story! I've read some reviews about the mentioned website and it looks well dodgy!
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Tell him to send a cheque for £10,000 to me and I'll sort it out for him
I run a charity -Cognitive Aspergers Self Help..C.A.S.H for short.Just make it out to that.
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So who do I send the aforementioned cheques to?Sid Pervcat wrote:Tell him to send a cheque for £10,000 to me and I'll sort it out for him
I run a charity -Cognitive Aspergers Self Help..C.A.S.H for short.Just make it out to that.
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Why are you so concerned about your mates step-son? That's what I find disturbing. Just let them sort it out and butt out of their business.Danabnormal wrote: Does my friends step dad tell him it's all bollocks ( which it obviously is) or let him find out by his own mistakes and break his heart, he is 27 so in no way a child, but has aspergers so finds it hard to rationalise things,
Thanks in advance
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I think the best bet would be to sit him down and show him these bad reviews on the site.Danabnormal wrote:Thanks, but I fear he is in too deep, my only worry is that he is going to send her money after some scam story! I've read some reviews about the mentioned website and it looks well dodgy!
I'm not particularly clued up on Aspergers but clearly his confidence has been destroyed and it looks like he's opting for the protection of the online world rather than the harshness of the real one.
I reckon he'd definitely benefit from some time in the company of real people. Maybe a weekend away with the lads doing "man stuff"?
All the best to all involved.
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It's my step son!carcinogen wrote:Why are you so concerned about your mates step-son? That's what I find disturbing. Just let them sort it out and butt out of their business.Danabnormal wrote: Does my friends step dad tell him it's all bollocks ( which it obviously is) or let him find out by his own mistakes and break his heart, he is 27 so in no way a child, but has aspergers so finds it hard to rationalise things,
Thanks in advance
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Thanks.Sadact7 wrote:I think the best bet would be to sit him down and show him these bad reviews on the site.Danabnormal wrote:Thanks, but I fear he is in too deep, my only worry is that he is going to send her money after some scam story! I've read some reviews about the mentioned website and it looks well dodgy!
I'm not particularly clued up on Aspergers but clearly his confidence has been destroyed and it looks like he's opting for the protection of the online world rather than the harshness of the real one.
I reckon he'd definitely benefit from some time in the company of real people. Maybe a weekend away with the lads doing "man stuff"?
All the best to all involved.
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Put him in touch with someone at MGTOW.
They always seem to talk a lot of sense.
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My missus is a teacher and she's convinced I'm a high functioning autistic.
I have to point out to her that I'm not that high functioning
I have to point out to her that I'm not that high functioning
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Fuck off RainmanSadact7 wrote:My missus is a teacher and she's convinced I'm a high functioning autistic.
I have to point out to her that I'm not that high functioning
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Light-drizzleman.Sid Pervcat wrote:Fuck off RainmanSadact7 wrote:My missus is a teacher and she's convinced I'm a high functioning autistic.
I have to point out to her that I'm not that high functioning
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Not cool broSid Pervcat wrote:Fuck off RainmanSadact7 wrote:My missus is a teacher and she's convinced I'm a high functioning autistic.
I have to point out to her that I'm not that high functioning
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Sadact7 wrote:My missus is a teacher and she's convinced I'm a high functioning autistic.
I have to point out to her that I'm not that high functioning
That explains an awful lot.
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AlcoholBrazil wrote:Sadact7 wrote:My missus is a teacher and she's convinced I'm a high functioning autistic.
I have to point out to her that I'm not that high functioning
That explains an awful lot.
How's that Alk?
Care to explain? Or have you just popped in for a little light goading?
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Alco doesn't even have Autism as an excuse for his retarded posts.
Poor Alco
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