I would drop Facebook into your next conversation. It WOULD seem creepy otherwise. 'I got sent a daft video on Facebook etc'.theleader82 wrote:Something along those lines yes. She's a bit younger though so didn't know if it would seem creepyRoquetas wrote:The day 'Facebook etiquette' becomes important is the day the world ends.theleader82 wrote:Is it OK to add someone that you don't know well but have chatted to at work and get on well?
Presumably you want to shag her?
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Nowt wrong with a younger lass though.....my missus is 14 years my junior - CASHBACK
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Yes, absolutely fine.theleader82 wrote:Is it OK to add someone that you don't know well but have chatted to at work and get on well?
Don't be hurt if they decline, though.
There are a couple of people I work with who I get on really well with, but they have a policy of not friending any work colleagues, which is fine (if a bit paranoid )
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DasBoot wrote:Roquetas wrote:Nowt wrong with a younger lass though.....my missus is 14 years my junior - CASHBACK
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Are you joking?theleader82 wrote:Is it OK to add someone that you don't know well but have chatted to at work and get on well?
I get friend requests from people I used to batter at school ffs. People are that desperate for numbers on their friend list they'll add anybody.
I don't accept their requests btw.
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He did mention that it was a younger girl at work so he is right to be cautious.
As I've got older, I have to remind myself that flirty comments I made to girls at work years ago wouldve been met with laughter, lust or amusement. These days it would be seen as being from a dirty old man.
Do not add her unless you're sure or she gives permission.
As I've got older, I have to remind myself that flirty comments I made to girls at work years ago wouldve been met with laughter, lust or amusement. These days it would be seen as being from a dirty old man.
Do not add her unless you're sure or she gives permission.
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A Partridge quote clearly lost on trolls like you.DasBoot wrote:Roquetas wrote:Nowt wrong with a younger lass though.....my missus is 14 years my junior - CASHBACK
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i missed this gemJonathan wrote:Be careful liking photos on Facebook. I just liked a pic of a girl who is one of my friends who I have not seen in years and just got threatened by her husband.
What happened Jon-o?
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Err: Jon-o is playing it cool, as presumably is Jon-o's ex shag.
A couple of work colleauges I socialise with were friended then every other work cunt sends a friend request. Only so much blagging that I don't go on it much then the floodgates open. I like you as a work colleague, but we are not friends, nor will be.
Some of the desperadoes are friends with our employer, what fucking shite is that, so getting do you know XXXX was enough to to delete account and start again.
Happy with the 30 odd people I actually know and like rather than an ex still going 1k+ socalled friends getting seedy messages from bus drivers she once spoke to who fanciy their chances. It was grim reading.
A hideous site and with live chatting hopefully dying soon, though some like it.
And never link anything to your FB account. Easy to do, why do they care? They care.
Jonathan wrote:We were more than friends a long time ago but he doesn't know that.Sadact7 wrote:What a belmJonathan wrote:Be careful liking photos on Facebook. I just liked a pic of a girl who is one of my friends who I have not seen in years and just got threatened by her husband.
Hope she's getting slipped it left, right and centre.
If I told him he would probably hunt me down
Regardless of age, Leader, if you are chatting with them, ask them if you can add them, ask then their FB name rather than them getting a surpirise request, could be seen as stalking. As per, most just want numbers so will be fine.theleader82 wrote:Is it OK to add someone that you don't know well but have chatted to at work and get on well?
I have that policy. Same with family. I can talk to them any time, no need to see their daily shite. Tend to use FB for people I don't see often who live away, whom I have some interest in and can keep in touch with.subsub wrote:Yes, absolutely fine.theleader82 wrote:Is it OK to add someone that you don't know well but have chatted to at work and get on well?
Don't be hurt if they decline, though.
There are a couple of people I work with who I get on really well with, but they have a policy of not friending any work colleagues, which is fine (if a bit paranoid )
A couple of work colleauges I socialise with were friended then every other work cunt sends a friend request. Only so much blagging that I don't go on it much then the floodgates open. I like you as a work colleague, but we are not friends, nor will be.
Some of the desperadoes are friends with our employer, what fucking shite is that, so getting do you know XXXX was enough to to delete account and start again.
Happy with the 30 odd people I actually know and like rather than an ex still going 1k+ socalled friends getting seedy messages from bus drivers she once spoke to who fanciy their chances. It was grim reading.
A hideous site and with live chatting hopefully dying soon, though some like it.
And never link anything to your FB account. Easy to do, why do they care? They care.
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I'm not working with her again for a while, as I work I'm different places most days. I was just going to add to be friendly. She said hopefully see you soon last time we worked together and i get a feeling she likes me. I dot want to
Seem like a stalker though, as I've not added anyone else that works with her , but I've spent more time with her .
Seem like a stalker though, as I've not added anyone else that works with her , but I've spent more time with her .
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Yep Carlos is right. Quite a bit younger than me, had fun until we both got bored with each other. After we finished she friend requested me, I accepted and that was that.shabbado wrote:i missed this gemJonathan wrote:Be careful liking photos on Facebook. I just liked a pic of a girl who is one of my friends who I have not seen in years and just got threatened by her husband.
What happened Jon-o?
Then her new boyfriend messaged me, asked how I knew her and just said she was a friend and nothing more. I didn't want to mess anything up for her.
I liked her marriage and then her new child.
Out of the blue she posted a sexy photo on FB which her hubby clearly didn't like. I probably should of ignored it but liked instead.
He wasn't happy, sent me an unappreciative message which I thought best to ignore and move on. Still her FB friend though
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I wouldn't go liking sexy pics, Jonn-o, no matter how fine they are. Just keep looking at them and enjoy them
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You're right Subs. I sort of sensed I shouldn't of as soon as I did it. I got a message pretty soon after. Never again.subsub wrote:I wouldn't go liking sexy pics, Jonn-o, no matter how fine they are. Just keep looking at them and enjoy them
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Print them off, jizz all over them and then send them to the husband.Jonathan wrote:You're right Subs. I sort of sensed I shouldn't of as soon as I did it. I got a message pretty soon after. Never again.subsub wrote:I wouldn't go liking sexy pics, Jonn-o, no matter how fine they are. Just keep looking at them and enjoy them
I'm sure he'll appreciate the ironic joke
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Should you send a message after request is accepted? Just saying hi that sort of thing
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Is it ok to untag yourself from photos if you didn't ask to be tagged in them. I'm quite a private person. I don't want other person to take offence
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The more I've used it, the more I've realised its a load of attention seeking shite
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Yes, perfectly OKtheleader82 wrote:Is it ok to untag yourself from photos if you didn't ask to be tagged in them. I'm quite a private person. I don't want other person to take offence
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Yes it's fine dear - put your tiny balls in your purse, untag yourself then have a cry
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Another stunningly bad attempt at being a smartarse! Seriously dude! Everything you post on here is just pure rubbish. Keep fishing bitch!The Ghost of Alex Higgins wrote:Yes it's fine dear - put your tiny balls in your purse, untag yourself then have a cry
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You missed an exclamation point! Borrow one off dougy! You silly little psm tit!tombaland wrote:Another stunningly bad attempt at being a smartarse! Seriously dude! Everything you post on here is just pure rubbish. Keep fishing bitch!The Ghost of Alex Higgins wrote:Yes it's fine dear - put your tiny balls in your purse, untag yourself then have a cry
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You can change your settings in your profile, however, something interesting is that if you upgrade to a full member, you can apparently see who has viewed your profile and vice versa.shabbado wrote:Haha LinkedIn is a nightmare for that.Steve Hunt wrote:Dunno.theleader82 wrote:Can people tell if you've been looking at their profile if you're not friends with them? I thought I read it puts them as people you may know.
I know they can with Linkedin. It's quite interesting to see who has looked at your profile - especially when it is ex-girlfriends!
Occasionally forget that it does notify the other person and I go for a stalking session only to remeber ten minutes later.
Please don't hoover up all the bollocks for yourself. Leave some for others.